I don't generally like doing the "pet peeve" blog posts, but a pattern has emerged lately that's become disturbing to me. People have an incredible capacity for good, but they also have an incredible capacity to not think. That old axiom that we only use half (maybe less) of our actual brain potential? Feels true of late.
Without giving any details, someone I know has been repeatedly inconvenienced, left out to dry, and overlooked by people he has to deal with every day. I wish I could elaborate, I really do, but for a whole host of reasons, I need to keep my mouth shut. But the extent to which he's not thought of by people who should know better doesn't reflect well on the operation.
Driving, too, you see it. When I'm driving in the right lane of a highway, passing an on-ramp, and a car entering the highway is timed so that he would merge in just as I would pass him, I change lane. It's really not that hard - it keeps traffic moving at the same speed, it's courteous to the driver entering, and it's safer than playing chicken with an unknown quantity. But nine times out of ten, the person on the highway doesn't have the cognitive function to notice this, look around, and make an adjustment.
My patience runs out when people can't be bothered to process information and make a reasonable decision. If the decision isn't to my liking but is reasoned, I can accept that. It's when substantial amounts of viable information are ignored that I get frustrated.