Look, I get it. Robbie Rogers’ return to MLS is a big
deal. He’s a talented kid, he can very probably make his team better, and it’s
notable that he is the first actively playing out gay man in a major team
sport. But Robbie did some really selfish things on his not-very-long journey
from Leeds back to the US, and the sum of those actions is a complete loss of
my respect for him.
It’s not that he didn’t want to play in Europe, it’s not
that he didn’t want to play for Chicago, it’s not even that he wanted to be
close to home. It’s the way he went about accomplishing each of these goals
that completely turned me off.
Robbie’s decision to “train” with a team he had no
contract with was a little off-putting, but I was willing to let it go. He’s a
young guy, he wanted to stay in shape, and LA is home for him. That’s fine. I’m
also okay with him not being interested in playing for Chicago. He never had
any connection to the city, contractual or otherwise, and I can absolutely
understand being bitter that the rights to his services were handed over
without his knowledge or consent. Again, no problem there.
Dragging the entire thing into the open to force his will
upon the entire league? No. Not okay.
By going public with his unwillingness to play in Chicago
and his assertion that he’d only play for the Galaxy, he effectively forced the
league’s hand. MLS as an entity couldn’t be seen as mistreating such an
“iconic” figure as Rogers by not granting him his wish to go home. So now there
were five parties to this so-called negotiation: Rogers, the Galaxy, the Fire,
MLS, and all of us.
There’s not a doubt in my mind that if Rogers tells Don
Garber, “I don’t want to play for Chicago, I want to play for Los Angeles, and
I don’t think I want to play at all otherwise”, a deal would have been struck.
It would have been a PR coup for the league to retrieve Rogers from the bench
on a third-tier English team in the first place, but giving him the chance to
go home would have been an added benefit…if
all of this was done under cover of darkness. Everybody would have won.
Instead, Rogers posted on Twitter about needing to be
near his family during this time, attempting to recruit the media and the
public to his cause. And it worked; MLS got the trade figured out (with a
supposedly complicit Mike Magee on his way to Chicago), LA got another
high-profile player, the league got all the good press of being the first “big
five” league in the US with an out active player, and Rogers got back on the
field.
I find myself in the extremely complicated position of
having helped lead a successful Pride Night recently and hating the bleeding
guts of the only out male player in the league. I want to call attention to the
many gay athletes that came before him and remind everyone that this is less
historic than people want to believe. I want to remind everyone of Billie Jean
King, Greg Louganis, Esera Tuaolo, Andrew Goldstein, Jason Collins, and Sheryl
Swoopes.
Robbie is not an icon – he is not the first gay athlete,
he is not the first out gay athlete, he is not the first out gay male athlete,
he is not the first out gay male athlete in team sports, he is not the first
out gay male athlete in “major” team sports. He is (arguably) the first out gay
male athlete in “major” team sports to appear in a game.
Have we covered all of the “firsts” now? Can we stop
talking about this? Can I feel safe in considering Rogers to be a jackass for
the way he forced the trade? Can I, as a gay man, give absolutely no damn about
the fact that Rogers is the only gay athlete in the league and judge the hell
out of him for the same things I’d judge straight athletes for?
Robbie doesn’t get a free pass because he happens to be more interested in pants bulges than in cleavage. As far as I’m
concerned, he’s a guy who used all of us to force a trade to another team.
That’s not okay in my book, and he’s lost my respect as a result.
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